Thursday, December 3, 2009

4 Days in India...

Broken, dusty, sidewalks. Rocks, dirt, walking paths filled with small, eager hazards, like roots in a forest, but more unscrupulous and easily missed. Awaiting the opportunity to trip the unaware foreigner used to nicely paved paths and walks. Especially in the dimly lit streets at night. Pedestrians wandering aimlessly through the streets, carrying baggage or a chicken or a stack of magazines to peddle to cars on street corners. Appearing purposeful in their direction, but disregarding any and all pedestrian law or etiquette you may find in a western country. Jaywalking is a national past time, but reeks of danger, amongst the zooming cars making rules up as they go, yet pedestrians boldly venture across the dangerous streets as if they were immortal. Beggars banging on your window with their wares while you are stopped in traffic, as they try and get your attention and some rupees. Ignore them or a simple glance will encourage them and fortify their efforts to extract rupees from the well dressed, well kept foreigner in the backseat of a luxury car. People sleeping on curbs mere feet from a major automobile artery. No care whatsoever for their propensity to certain death should just one of the thousands of vehicles driving by them each hour run amiss. Cars, and Auto-Rickshaw's and Bicycles and Scooters; all with a seating capacity of at least a family of four. Converging in one direction with divergent goals. Complete disregard for traffic laws or lanes or right-of-ways. He who is boldest is first. It's a continual game of chicken. Near miss, head-on collisions are the norm. Shrill cry of horns, from low, toyota beeps, to creative high-pitched after-market 'look-at-me-my-horn-blows-yours-off-the-road' shrills. Long blows, short beeps, High-pitched staccato cries and low-pitched moans. Constant near misses and near hits by vehicles among the cacophony of sounding horns that never ends, 24 hours a day. Flash your 'dippers' (brights) and honk to pass at night, honk to pass in daylight. Friendly signs on most large trucks admonishing the participants of the constant roadway grind to do just that. Dismal, Orange, Brown Suffocating Smog, that hides the blue sky and cloaks the sun with a muted, filtered appearance and seems ever present, yet gives the redstone artifacts of millennium gone past a strange proper framing of sepia treatment. As if the smog has come to terms with it's purpose in life and that's to give all of India a brown hue. More pedestrians, gaggles of women, young and old, dressed in brightly colored sarongs of lime green, bright maroon, blaze yellow and subdued brown. Heads covered and mysterious dark eyes peering through the folds, forehead adorned with simply a spot of red or sometimes an intricately designed bindi complete with jewels and gold that give the hindu soul an eye.

Children. If they are old enough to walk, they are old enough to beg. And can and will do so fervently. Otherwise, toddlers can be found sitting near their finely adorned mothers among the dust and smog and litter and mud and dirt and dogs and cows. All within a stones-throw of the other. Sitting contently as their beautifully dressed mothers congregate in groups to share vishna-knows-what with each other on the corner of poverty and chaos.

Cows in the street. Wandering the villages at will. Skinny, malnourished and seemingly oblivious to the hubub of auto-rickshaws, motorcycles and truck traffic, honking, weaving and challenging each other for the right of way. Chewing their cud contentedly as a sacred, zen-like presence amongst the chaos.

Trash. Littered and scattered about as if it belongs. It's hard to find pride on the streets of India. Very hard. 500 million people here live on 100 rupees a day, which is about half the price of a grande' latte at your corner Starbucks, or less than $2 put simply. Picking up trash and litter is the least of their concerns. It blows around and settles and litters like sand being stirred up on the bottom of the ocean ruining a good snorkel experience. Trash everywhere. Pervasive; smelly; obtrusive, yet accepted.

Dogs... seem to be the happiest of all species here as bitches with swollen, sagging teats from multiple litters seem to be everywhere. They play part of the scenery. Not on leashes, not collared, belonging to no one but the chaos. And you can still see them smile. Sleeping in gutters, napping in parks, trotting along the roads, feeding on trash, India is a dogs paradise.

Palatial beauty. A huge disparity between the haves and the have-nots. A US Government sponsored visitor stays at a Five-Star Enclave that is a World-Heritage site complete with gates and security and isolation from any and all riff-raff that may be found outside. Colonial British built buildings with ornate marble and hardwood floors, luxury carpets Victorian style furniture, gold-inlay wall decor, servants hired from the chaos outside to butter your toast and shine your shoes. Serve you coffee, turn down your bed with exquisite linens, clean your room, give you a towel and cold bottle of water as you step off the treadmill.

The cognitive dissonance between what is reality for most residents here and what is reality for visitors like me doesn't escape my wonder. The only thing I can truly come to terms with here, is that no matter what their lot in life, living condition or caste: Jesus loves every single one of these people equally, just as He loves me, you, and every other person on this incredibly diverse planet.


Saturday, July 11, 2009

A new home...

Well, it's happened. I talked about buying a new place here last August, and here I sit, almost a year later, moved into my new home. I LOVE it. Interesting enough, I was looking at buying a foreclosed home, and actually started looking pretty hard back in January. Well, as it turns out, short-sales take a REALLY long time, and I didn't really have the patience to go to a Foreclosure auction, and well, there were just never any deals that struck me as something I wanted to buy. Keep in mind, I was considering some Real Estate Investment properties, but in all honesty, I really wanted to own my own house and have a place to call my own... so, back in February, I was out in an area called Makikilo Heights out here in Southwest Oahu, looking at a place that was a short sale (for those that don't know what a short sale is, it's when a mortgage company takes ownership of a house and sells it for less than what the owner owes on it... i.e. short of the full value or price... it's happening alot in this market these days) Anyway- well, I was literally in the driveway of this place that I was thinking about buying on the phone with the realtor when he got news that a contract had been accepted on it. Literally within the hour. Soo... back on the hunt I was going, but as I was going back down the hill from Makikilo, I remembered this one community that had really intrigued me when I first started my hunt for a house in Hawaii while I was looking on the Internet in Japan. It was called 'Nanala at Mehena'. The concept was building on the 'planned community' that the city of Kapolei, HI has been focusing on for about 20 years now. Except Nanala was going to be what was termed a 'Live, Work, Play' community. In that it is zoned as a mixed-use community. Well, it intrigued me when I first read about it, because the whole idea of working for myself and from home has been a long term goal of mine, and these units (some of them) have integrated retail/office space on the lower level. They are also completely energy efficient, have fiber-optic data lines all the way to the premise of each unit, have top of the line appliances, etc., etc., not to mention they are all new. So there I was that day, coming down the hill from Makikilo Heights, when I saw the sign for this community that had so intrigued me a year before. They hadn't started building yet, when I first got to Hawaii, and now, they'd built the first unit and, wouldn't you know, they had a model to show. Well, I stopped in, met the realtor that was showing them, and she took me for a look. Well, after she offered me 16K in sellers credit and knowing I would get another 6K in credit from my buyers agent, I found it hard to resist when I knew I could have a say in all the details of the asthetics of the place, it would be new, and it would be something that I could call my own. I signed a contract on the place two days later. Being that I used a VA loan, it took some time for the appaisal to get finished after the construction was complete (due to the economic environment everyone is using their gov't loans these days and the appraisers are having a hard time keeping up with the demand), but I finally closed on it on the 30th of June. I'm pretty happy with it to say the least. I managed to sell all my old furniture to the tenants that were moving into my old place, for a good price, mind you, and as I write this I'm waiting for the new furniture that I ordered to arrive next week. It is a bit out of the way of things as to where I lived before. It's kind of hard to beat the convenience of living in Waikiki... I really don't think it gets much better than that. But it's actually much more quiet out here, not nearly as many sirens or buzzing scooters going by at all hours of the night, and really, Target, Costco and Home Depot and all the other random little retail stores are all about a 5 minute drive (literally- maybe 6- I've timed it) from my driveway, so I can't really complain. And do you need any other stores than those three? Murphy also digs it because he gets to run off the leash every morning and evening because there is tons of undeveloped land out here that we walk each day. Even the commute to work isn't as bad as I thought it may be. Although I've been told that because school is out for the summer it's not nearly as bad as what is usually is. At any rate, life is good. I'm pretty happy with my new place. I've also got a lot more room now than I did in Waikiki. So if you find yourself in Hawaii, you are welcome to stay. I call my place 'Hal's Hawaiian Ha'ole Hostel' I've got a bed with your name on it if you are heading to the islands. Check my FaceBook page to see some sunset pictures from my Lanai too. I really couldn't be happier about my new place.

Well, thanks for reading my blog... it's been a while since I've updated it, but thanks for stopping by! Cheers and Aloha!!

Monday, April 13, 2009

Monday's a Funday...

So today I'm not working... well, for the Navy that is... I'm heading to Japan tomorrow, and I had tons of stuff to catch up on today. So I took a day of leave, as we call it in the military. At any rate, what a great weekend- my church hosted a huge Easter celebration at the Neal Blaisdale Center here in Honolulu... and I sang in the mass choir. I had one friend ask me if I was going to be the Easter Bunny- I thought that was funny, but no, I just wore a yellow shirt and stood in the back of the choir, trying to remember the words. It was powerful though. If you haven't seen the status updates, you can get a taste of the production here The opening was pretty amazing- there were 5 different styles of drum ensembles from around the world, from Japanese style drums, to African Jimbae's to Revolutionary War style snares, to hip-hop style street drumming to modern day drum and bugle corps style purcussion. It was simply amazing. If anything, check out the opening of the production.

Another thing that I was turned on to this weekend was the power of Twitter... you've probably been hearing about it in the background for a while now, as have I... but I finally saw the light, so to speak, this last Friday. I attended the Social Media Club Hawaii at the ING Direct facility here in Waikiki, and was impressed to say the least. I met someone who has over 66,000 'followers' on Twitter... although I didn't know it at the time. Someone told me after the fact... and then I realized that whatever this lady has to tweet about... there are 66,000 people that are going to listen to it... and then I realized that's pretty powerful from a marketing perspective. So anyway... I'm jumping in... check my tweets out at http://www.twitter.com/halwilkerson and if you are a small-business owner and/or are in sales/marketing, Twitter seems to me to be a pretty powerful platform for leveraging relationships for business in this new information age we are living in.

Well- I'm not getting any items done on my to-do list, so I'd better sign off!

Cheers and Aloha-

Hal

Friday, February 27, 2009

Bob Dylan - Forever Young

I dedicate this song to Larenda. An amazing, classy, beautiful woman, who showed me that life isn't always about the big things, but often it's about the little things. I love you Larenda, and I'm sorry. May God bless you and keep you...

Sunday, August 3, 2008

Kind of a slow month...

For Paradise, written anyway.  I've been finding myself quite busy off-line though, although, Facebook has made keeping up with old friends and family much easier... so much easier that I've not been updating here... but such is life.  Anyway, speaking of life... Larenda and I were lying on the roof of my building a few weeks back getting some sun by the pool, when the thought occurred to me that I was ready to lose some weight... well... I decided right then and there that I was going to drink water only for one month and see what happens... well... I did, or I should say, I am... I think it was like the 13th or 14th of July when I decided, and tomorrow is the 3rd of August, so it's been nearly three weeks.  No beer, no wine, no sodas, heck, not even drinking Gatorade... just water.  I am drinking coffee with no cream or sugar in the mornings at work, and I'll also drink an unsweetened iced green tea from Starbucks when Larenda brings me one (green tea is supposed to be pretty good for you) but other than that all water... well... what motivated me to do only water was the fact that I had a cousin who I was talking to at our family reunion back in June and he had lost like 20 lbs just drinking water... well, as we were sitting there on the roof in the sun, I was looking at my belly thinking, I really need to do something about this... I remembered my cousin's water-trick, I thought, why not?  So I committed to it.  And I've stuck to it as well- it's been about 20 days so far... and it's actually done pretty well for me.  My skin, in some areas has improved, which a waitress, who was also a skin specialist, asked me if it had improved, and I hadn't even thought about that, but it in fact has, and I also have lost some weight... but I must add... once I decided that I was going to do this water thing for a month, I thought, why not work in a decent work-out program and see how that plays out?  Well... I bought the 'Body-for-Life' book waaaay back in 2000... my buddy Scotty and I started it out and did it for about 2 weeks or so, but I wasn't committed to it.  Well, I had found the book recently, and decided to give that a go as well... before you know it, I was on a full-up diet and exercise program.  Well, the first night I started this program, I was 190 lbs.  The lowest I've seen so far since then is 183... 184-185 is about the norm for me.... but I can say that my waist is shrinking and I'm getting a little more lean and shaped up top, which is always good... and get this- I had my flight physical done in June- I've historically always had borderline high blood-pressure, well, last time I had it checked in June for my annual flight physical, it was like 132/87 or something like that.  Not so great honestly.  Well, with Body-for-Life, not only am I working out 6 days a week, but I'm also on a much healthier meal-plan (low-fat, lot's of protein, 6 small meals a day)... well, I went to the dentist this last Friday, and they took my blood pressure, and it was down to a svelte 110/71!!  I couldn't believe it- the dental tech was like "That's a really good reading..." I was pretty happy about it... all from just changing up my diet really... I've actually been running fairly regularly this year, so I don't think it was from any changes in exercise... just from changing up my diet... so anyway- needless to say, I haven't been writing much this month, but I've sure been active.  I work out about 45 minutes each day except Sundays, which are may day off of both working out, as well as dieting, and it's been going fairly well.  That is one of the great parts of the Body for Life program, is one day a week, you get to eat whatever you want.  That gives me something to look forward to each week... last week I had some pizza and wings... along with some of my favorite guava-filled french toast at Wailana Cafe...  I've been happy with the results, and I feel a lot better too.  Those that know me also know I've never really been into working out much, but for some reason, I'm just really enjoying this... maybe it's Hawaii... who knows.  All I know is that I'm glad I'm doing it.

In other news, I'm looking at buying a house here in Hawaii in the next 6 months... if I've got the guts for it, that is.  The prices are coming down out here as well, although not as much as on the mainland, but I feel like it's time I owned my own place.  The scary part, is the bank just approved me for over half a million dollars in debt... and the median price of homes here on Oahu is $620,000.... isn't that crazy?  I've been looking at trying to swing a deal on a foreclosed home... we shall see... I've got a lot of learning to do, that's for sure... but I'm ready to move into the burbs.  This year has been good living in Waikiki, but I'm kind of ready to move into a bigger place with a yard... I think.  Who knows.  Anyway- that's what's been going on in my life this month.  Among a lot of other things...  Cheers and Aloha from Paradise.

Sunday, July 6, 2008

(A Generic) One Year... (post)

Well, it was one year ago today that I stepped off of that plane in Chicago's O'hare airport after flying in from Narita International in Japan and was re-introduced into American culture... I've become more 'American-ized' if you will in the last year, as I've rejoined western civilization as we know it, but I still consider myself having a small amount of Asian culture remaining... L and her sister and mother and I ate lunch at this great Thai place on the North Shore today, and I found myself using chop-sticks without even thinking about it to put away a nice plate of Chicken Curry... wow- it was tasty too!  Thanks L, for the great recommendation!

Anyway- so I guess I'm sitting here tonight, being somewhat introspective about how my life has changed in the last year... I guess because it was such a drastic change moving back from another country, and really, well, a marker for me in my life, because I feel I came back still the same old Hal, but changed in some deeper ways that may not be evident on the surface.  So I guess I'm just trying to identify if there is anything that I've changed in my life since I've moved back... well, one thing is certain... I'm in better shape.  I've gotten to where I'm running a lot more, and it's helped me out in life all around.  In fact, I'm even going to run the Honolulu Marathon this year.  Back when I turned 30, I said I was going to do it that year, well, that didn't happen, so I'm a few years removed from that year, so I'm doing it this decade... I won't be hanging with the Ethiopians, but I should be a middle-of-the-pack runner... probably 3 hours and some change...  what else... hmm... well, I do feel one thing has changed in the last year... I feel like I've gotten a little more selfish... and a little less patient.  I specifically remember thinking that patience was one thing that I brought back with me from Japan... and I think, to a small degree, I still have that quality, but sometimes, when it is tested a bit much, I have to take a deep breath and remember that patience is indeed a virtue.  A valuable one.  Our culture, unfortunately, no longer values patience.  But it is, indeed, a good virtue to possess.  May I have more patience... selfishness... another quality that I feel has crept up on me.  I don't know... I feel like I'm a pretty giving person, but sometimes I feel like I don't make sacrifices where I should make sacrifices... and that leaves me feeling selfish.  Fortunately, I'm not want for anything else in my life materialistically, but I think sometimes I'm selfish with my time... but I'll leave it at that.

One thing that I'm so thankful that has happened to me, relatively of late, is my relationship with a wonderful woman named Larenda.  For those of you that don't know, we met actually, at the Dog Park of all places.  Living in a Condo in Waikiki with an Irish Setter requires quite a bit of exercise, if you can imagine... well, Larenda also has a dog, and we managed to start synching our trips to the dog park without actually talking about it.  Just so we 'happened' to run into each other each evening around the same time... I'm a big fan in case you can't tell... more details later, as I need to hit the rack, but I just wanted to mention how thankful I am for Larenda in so many, many ways, and also, just put a post up for my one year anniversary of being back in the states.  Hawaii is definitely the best state to be in that's for sure.

That's all for now.  1 year back in the states... still proud to be an American, and really glad to be living here.

Oh yeah- got some new slippers (Flip-Flops for you mainlanders) today... Larenda has been extolling the virtues of the Rainbow Slipper pretty much since I met her, and well, since I blew out one of my flip-flops when I was home for the reunion... I needed a new pair.  She had no problem talking me into getting a pair.  They are great- they have leather soles and conform to the soles of your feet... plus they are guaranteed not to blow out until you've worn out the sole completely.  Not bad if you ask me.  So now Larenda and I have matching slippers... I told her we needed to get matching Aloha shirts and walk around in Waikiki with them.  Not a chance was the vibe I got back from her.  Thanks for the recommendation L.  You're the best!

Tuesday, July 1, 2008

Take that, Diamond Head...

Ran from one end of Waikiki to the other, lapped Diamond Head, and ran back just now.  9.21 Miles, 1 hour, 17 minutes, 39 seconds... I feel good!